Safety Tips

Protect Your Personal Information

• Never share your home or work address, financial information, or identification documents with matches
• Use the app's messaging system instead of giving out your personal phone number or email early on
• Be cautious about what's visible in your photos (addresses, workplace logos, etc.)

Watch for Red Flags

• Money requests: Never send money or financial assistance to someone you haven't met in person
• Avoiding video calls: Be wary of someone who always has excuses for not video chatting
• Too fast too soon: Be cautious of people who profess love or strong feelings very quickly
• Inconsistent stories: Pay attention if details about their life don't add up
• Pressure to move off-app: Scammers often try to move conversations to other platforms quickly

Report Suspicious Behavior

If someone makes you uncomfortable, asks for money, or behaves inappropriately, report them immediately. Your reports help keep everyone safe. You can block and report users directly from their profile or conversation.

Before the Date

• Video chat first: Have a video call before meeting to verify they are who they say they are
• Tell someone: Always tell a friend or family member where you're going, who you're meeting, and when
• Research your date: A quick social media search can help verify their identity

During the Date

• Meet in public: Always meet in a public place for your first few dates - a cafe, restaurant, or busy park
• Arrange your own transport: Don't rely on your date for a ride - drive yourself, use public transport, or arrange your own taxi
• Stay sober: Keep a clear head, especially on first dates. Watch your drink and don't leave it unattended
• Keep your phone charged: Ensure you can always call for help or a ride if needed
• Check in: Send a text to your friend when you arrive and when you leave

Trust Your Instincts

If something feels wrong, it probably is. You don't owe anyone an explanation for leaving. Some signs to watch for:

• They pressure you to go somewhere private
• They don't respect your boundaries
• They look very different from their photos
• They make you feel uncomfortable in any way

Understanding Consent

Consent is an enthusiastic, informed, and freely given agreement to participate in any activity. Remember:

• Consent must be explicit: Silence or lack of resistance is not consent
• Consent can be withdrawn: Anyone can change their mind at any time, and that must be respected
• Consent is specific: Agreeing to one activity doesn't mean agreeing to others
• Intoxication affects consent: Someone who is intoxicated cannot give informed consent
• No pressure: Consent given under pressure, manipulation, or coercion is not valid consent

Protect Your Sexual Health

• Use protection: Always use appropriate protection to prevent STIs and unwanted pregnancy
• Get tested regularly: Regular STI testing is an important part of sexual health
• Communicate openly: Have honest conversations with partners about sexual health and boundaries
• Know your status: Be aware of your own sexual health status and share relevant information with partners

Setting and Respecting Boundaries

• You have the right to say no to anything you're not comfortable with
• Communicate your boundaries clearly and early
• Respect others' boundaries without question or pressure
• A healthy relationship involves mutual respect for each person's limits